🧸 Hello... thank you for stopping by.
I’m a bit on the quiet, introverted side and tend to speak softly, but I’m an open book once we connect. I’m a big, 6'2", 282lb bald cub/bear with a full beard and a fuzzy build. I might not look it, but I'm tender-hearted, very caring myself, very patient, gentle, and looking for a safe space to land. While I look like I could play rough (and I can), I’m neurodivergent and have walked through some heavy grief, so I have my moments of quiet and might need space, but usually some love and support. And currently I’m looking to explore the parts of myself I’ve held back for too long.
✨ My Care-Based Side (little side)
I thrive in a dynamic where I can be submissive and cared for. I’m looking for a Caregiver or Daddy (or Daddies) to build a structured, loving home with. I really bloom when I receive praise, affirmation, and the security of knowing I’m doing a good job. In my more *** moments, I need someone who enjoys:
Nurturing: Providing a sense of security, helping me unwind, and tucking me in at night.
Companionship: Playing games, building Legos, and relaxing with cartoons together.
Tenderness: Giving lots of cuddles and helping me feel safe and small.
Guidance: Watching out for me and providing the structure and gentle discipline I need to feel grounded.
⛓ My Kinky Side
Lately, I’ve been leaning much more into my submissive side. I’m versatile, open to exploring, and I enjoy a mix of intensity and affection. I have a deep appreciation for gear, materials, and specific scenes (smell, sound, and touch, not just visual):
Materials: Heavy into rubber, latex, leather, PVC, and spandex (in that order)
Roles: I love uniforms, roleplay, and explore submissive dynamics with enthusiasm.
Dynamic Play: I enjoy bondage, discipline, and a lot of BDSM play. I also have a handler side that comes out when I’m around puppies and can be more dominant or submissive with brothers!
Note: I’m D&D free, aside from the occasional edible to help me get into my little space (maybe the right space and family, I won't need it's effects).
🏡 What I’m Searching For
My ultimate dream is to find a sense of home again, perhaps being adopted by an established poly leather family or building one from the ground up with a dedicated partner. I’m looking for a family environment with Daddies, puppies, and brothers. While I’m open to everyone being part of the family, my primary focus for intimacy and connection is with men. I need a family that can offer the love and structure that I'm currently missing.
🤓 Outside of the Scene
When I’m just being me, I’m a total nerd. I love computers, gaming (both video games and tabletop), Legos, and tinkering with tech gadgets. I’m a furry, I love to cook, and I absolutely adore ***s—if it has fur or feathers, it will probably warm up to me. I also like hiking, swimming, and reading when I can find the time.
I might not demand attention, but I absolutely love it (and have found I need it). I'm not bound to a location, so I can relocate if we feel like I'm right fit for you. If you think I might fit into your life or family, please don't be scared to chat. I'd love to see if we click.